Remembering you are great

When I first started to really love Chase.  I mean REALLY REALLY love Chase and the first thoughts of...Is this someone I should marry? started coming to my mind I would makes lists of qualities I thought were important in a husband and and qualities Chase had and then match them up.

Something that was on my list that was never taught to me directly at home, church, or other examples (but was always taught indirectly) was something that Chase has.  It's something I realized I was always surrounded with my whole life.  In my family, the friends I chose, and all of my role models.

He is not afraid of being great.

Something that I think holds back so many people from their greatest potential and even HALF of their potential is their own fear of being great.

Chase is not afraid of being great.  He sees something he wants and goes and gets it.  He does not get angry if he fails at first of loses to someone else.  He just trudges on analyzing, learning, and evaluating his own progress.  I know no one with his stamina.  If you lost at a board game that last 45 min a round 4 times in a row would you want to keep playing until you figured out how to win?  If you would would you do it with a smile on your face while being a good sport? maybe you would, and good for you:)

some other people in my life who are not afraid?


How about that little brother of mine.  once upon a time when he was 10 or 11 he asked for a kite from ebay online from my Mom.  Little did she know that it was a kite boarding training kite that came with a how to video.  Through teasing not living near water or wind and the expectations and lack of money on our families end He got his first sponsor (for kite boarding) when he was 16 and now at age 19 is on a professional international kite boarding team.  My brother is cool ( I know I talk about his a lot) and he is also not afraid of greatness

What about my Mom?  she has lost somewhere near 115 120 lbs (I am really not sure how much) and for her birthday this year I ordered her a size Large shirt! (I wear a medium fyi) what a babe.  She decided she was not afraid of greatness either.


My other siblings?  also great in other very different ways.  Daniel? He is the best of all of us.  The man is hard working, never wavers, kind to everyone, fun, he is the best listener and most thoughtful person I know.  seriously girls if you have a shot with this man don't waste it.  Jacob, another sweet fearless sibling.  He is not afraid to be himself and stand up for whats right ever.  He also knows how to make everyone laugh...AND He has better swimming technique than any of us ever had.  Rob? Another person in my life who has decided to take control of their health.  He has started running like a mad man.  Also he knows technology like no one else I know.  and Aaron!! talk about self control.  I always know I can count on him to do the best he can with what he has.  Responsibility is this guys middle name.

And Daddy? where do you think we learned how to be so great?  I am fairly sure that all of our focus and drive (aka stubbornness) came from this guy.  It was nice to grow up knowing that this amazing man had our backs always.

I really love my family, And I really love that they are all such great examples for me.  I love how different we all are.

All of the people in my life are so brave.  It takes a lot to push yourself and make a difference in the world.  And that's what we all intend to do.

(I am not about to proof read my post, sorry Chase I know their are probably a lot of mistakes)

my hair is blonde my hair is blonde my hair is blonde

okay...so not really blonde, it has highlights...I wanted it to look lighter....AND it does.

You know there is a big change to your hair when boys notice that you rarely even see....

ANYWAYS It's different and my goal is to like it by the end of 2 weeks.

I don't know how great of quality this picture is but here you go!

I am better than the girl of his dreams, I'm real

First of all.  I Love Glee...sorry Mom, but it's time you know that you are by far a better human being than I. I know at time it is inappropriate.  but I think some things about it are hilarious.  anywho


Anyways! It sometimes blows my mind how uneducated so many people are about health.  SO! if you have knowledge share it! more importantly apply it to yourself:)

My Dad is so Rad

I love my Dad.  A LOT!

I hope he never gets shot.

I very much resemble him,

and I know he loves my every limb.

He taught me what a man should be,

On the hunt for my man it was a helpful key.

Thanks for making me who I am today,

I have confidence and love for myself and others in every way.

Last but not least...really the most important thing,

thanks for teaching me to put first and always love our King.


from me to you Papa bear.
Love, lil Beth

The world is lovely

okay... so I have totally dropped the ball on blogging this summer...again.

BUT here I go in an attempt to capture this summers essence in one small to medium size post.

FIRST I'm just going to say it...everyone else is thinking it anyways.  mating season hit my friend list hard this year.  Four of my friends in NC are prego along with my bff Tamra a few of my friends back West and a couple of Chases friends wives as well.  And I am so happy for each and everyone of them!!!

**ladies if you are one of the few and far between that are not Prego feel free to meet with the recently founded non pregnant club.  We meet in the hot tub every chance we get....;)

SECOND being bunk buddies with our good friends Jonny and Emilee has been so fun!!! (at least for Emi and I)  We are always finding awesomely stupid things to do.   For instance planing a blind fold date for our super babe husbands, Henna Tattoos, Dance videos, countless dinners, workouts, store excursions, clothes shopping, and this girl even stood watch for me after watching an all to disturbing csi episode and couldn't find the courage to go home and change alone.  Thanks Em:):)

THIRD becoming such great friends with all the other wives out here!!!!! Everyone is so fun!!! shout out to Erin, Lindsay, and Corinne I had some of the bests nights ever with you and Emi.  (oh and fyi we are currently all anxiously awaiting Corinnes baby to arrive at any moment!!!!)

FOURTH.....IM IN LOVE!!!!! Thank goodness right?  I love to take a step back and laugh at my relationship with this wonderful man.   I used to think we were so similar.  But guess what we are very different in all the right ways and seem to balance ourselves out well.  For instance... Chase drives 10 miles under the speed limit so I drive 10ish... miles over:) PERFECTION!!

FIFTH North Carolina has seriously grown on me.  I was just outside admiring the stars and the last of the sunset reflecting on the clouds and it hit me hard that I have really grown to love it here.  The trees the beaches the fireflies.  As much as I love and miss the mountains I would be a happy girl winding up back east somewhere.  (I might be singing a different tune if it was more humid today)

SIXTH I love roller coasters!!!!!!!! and last Saturday we went to Kings dominion home of quite a few brilliant coasters!!! one of them makes most people (myself included) get very close to blacking out!!! WHOA!

okay well... Chase is home the game is on...and I am on his computer...need I say more???

Have a blessed day:)

This one is for you Katie (Video journal #2)

I would like to thank Sarah, Jen, Corinne, Lindsay, Emi, Ryan, Adam, the man with the hairy chest and Jodi for making this video possible. 

I call this...The art of dance.

My mom is a rock star

My Mom is a rock star.

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that woman in the middle...that's MY mom.

yep she is Hot.

OH and this

  is MY brother.
this is kite boarding magazine he is on an international pro team.  he is 19 AND growing up we did not live close to resources that allowed this to easily happen for him
rad

what can you learn from these two family members of mine?

seriously if you set your mind to it you can accomplish anything.

did you hear me???? ANYTHING!!!
how many obstacles did both of these people face? countless....and I mean that with all my heart.